Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 2
Posted on July 18, 2008
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Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.
There’s a syndrome that I call a “doofus dad” syndromeThere’s another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.
But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.
After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
This make my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - and I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Ask you know, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.
The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don’t recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.
No games, just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.
Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.
It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
You should think that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.
One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That’s ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.
That’s why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.
And there’s no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.
Vin
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